“I’m fucking bored!!”
I texted Highway Guy, on a Tuesday night. This was my day off. And I found myself bored the entire day and maybe even a little lonely. I needed some social interaction.
“I’ve been thinking I might like some of that almost full handle of vodka I left over there,” I said, referencing the left overs from our last night of fun, which happened just 4 short days before. We had been texting last week, and planned to see each other on Saturday night. However, Friday night had rolled around, and he dialed me up to come hang out that night with him and his sister instead. “Can you bring a bottle!?” his drunken sister yelled in the background.
The last few times I came over I have brought something to share. And, I drink a lot of it. Typically when I go to parties I leave whatever is left over as a parting gift to my host. It’s not a big deal and I know that leftover booze found in the morning when I have had to clean up from a party of my own are welcome gifts. Plus, it seems kind of cheap to take a half empty bottle with you when you leave. My college days, when I had to scrounge for liquor and liquor money (and take home half empty bottles), are over. I have room for a little more class in my budget these days.
But, I had left 2/3 of a handle, and almost a full bottle of cranberry juice, which the sister had promised to keep until the next time I came to party. Which, of course, became the perfect excuse for quelling my need for social interaction on a boring Tuesday night.
“I drank it.” Highway Guy texted back.
“WTF!? Dude fuck you!” I wasn’t really mad about the booze as much as I was that he drank it without inviting me to share. I liked Highway Guy. And, I wanted to see him and have fun with him–he is the closest thing to a good friend in town that I have. He would be the perfect FWB I was looking for, if only he would comply with my demands and answer ALL of my texts instead of just some of them.
It was time to let the bitch out of the bag. Because, heck, it seemed to work well for me before!
“You only invite me over to bring you booze, then you ignore my texts. No wonder it is so hard to find good friends!!!”
“WTF?”
“Yeah, I’m pissed. And I kind of feel like that, ok? So please, correct me if I’m wrong. You wanna be fuck friends, that’s fine. But don’t just use me and forget to be my friend.”
“I’m sorry”
I ended up calling him after that. He had been talked into drinking with his sister that night (gee, do these guys ever stop?), and apologized to me. I told him the least he could do is buy me another handle and call me next time he wants to drink my shit, so at least I can join him. Then, once amends were made…or more like, I laid down how things were going to be…we decided to meet up. He offered to come here, since I always go there, but I insisted I go that way because I didn’t want him driving all that way having already been drinking.
“Did you drink all the cranberry too?
“I drank that, too.”
“Oh, lord. It’s a good thing you are good in the sack. Or, at least I think you are…from the parts I remember!” I’m always under the influence when I’m with him. And, I’ve yet to orgasm for him because of it, and I forget some parts of our encounters because of it, too! But I do remember a good portion of it, and I always remember that I fucking love having sex with him.
“It’s a bribe,” he joked.
“Wtf, why am I always the sugar momma?! You should be getting me drunk!”
“Then maybe you should dig for a sugar daddy.”
“I don’t need one. I’m an independent and successful woman.”
“And I’m a broke college student with a baby.”
“Gee. LOL I’m a fucking cougar.”
I’m pretty sure being 26 doesn’t qualify me for cougarhood. And, he’s only 4 years younger than me at 22. But, when I stopped to think about where we both were in life, the situation seemed the same. I live a comfortable life. I have money in savings, my bills are paid, I drive a nice car and I got my shit together. He is truly a broke college student. And, I remember being that myself when I was his age, and it seems like I’ve walked a long road since I was in those shoes. Hell, I’ve even been married and divorced since then!
It made me feel a little better, once I truly thought about it. If he could afford to take me out and booze me up, I’m sure he would. He was always very accommodating of me when I was around him, and I often refer to him as my knight in shining armor because he stands up for me and is the kind of guy I could take with me when the day comes that I have to hash out divorce stuff with my ex. He could be my bodyguard. That’s his values, too.
And, to be honest, the leftover booze doesn’t hold a candle to the great sex and the way he treats me. Except for the sometimes unanswered texts. Those I hate.
Well, I grabbed a twelve pack and headed over. It was just him and I, the sister and her man had gone to sleep, after no doubt many hours of binging.
We talked as I downed beer after beer. One thing that I love about Highway Guy is that whenever I walk in the place, I can see on his face how pleased he is to see me looking good. I can tell he finds me attractive. There is always a smile on his face when I walk in.
Eventually, once the beers rested my nerves a little, I brought up those really annoying unanswered texts. He said that he didn’t mean to leave them unanswered – it’s just that sometimes I text him in the middle of class or while he is doing one of his side jobs or when he is around the crazy baby momma. Basically, it wasn’t a good time to answer back, but he was convinced that he eventually answered them, though I begged to differ. I told him that they made me feel like he wasn’t interested in talking to me or that he was blowing me off or disrespecting me, but then later would want me over and of course I’d be bringing something to drink.
He reassured me that that wasn’t the case, and apologized that it seemed that way. After all, last time it was the sister who was yelling in the background for a bottle. I guess I had forgotten because she ended up not drinking any of the bottle I brought. He also said he didn’t want me getting attached too fast, so he thought it might be good to keep things at a minimum to stop me from wanting to have a relationship with him.
Oh, hell.
I let him have it at this point. What had I been telling him all along!? He KNEW I didn’t want a relationship.
“I just want a friend!!! A really GOOD friend. Someone I can talk to when I have a bad day and hang out with and it’s nothing more than that!”
“Ok….but situations change, you know that.”
“Why do you keep saying things like that? Last time I was here I told you I was ok being the ‘invisible woman’ – that we could just be fuck friends and that was it, and you said, ‘that’s fine….for now’. What the hell does that even mean?”
“You’re a woman. You ALL get attached eventually.”
“What the fuck ever, don’t categorize me like that! I have spent a lot of time figuring out what I want and what I don’t want, and trust me, if I ever want to be in a relationship again, I have standards and requirements so specific, that that person probably will never exist!! I just want a friend. And that is all!”
“Ok! I’m sorry, I’ll answer your texts more and invite you over more. I just want you to understand I have priorities in my life right now, and you’re not at the top of them!”
“I don’t expect to be! Why would I be? You aren’t at the top of mine.You have a life and school and a child and a difficult situation with your baby momma. I GET that. I’m not asking to be anything near that on your list.”
Gosh, it sure felt good to air out the laundry.
It took a little bit of courage to put it all out there, but if I hadn’t, he wouldn’t have known where I was coming from, I’d still be in the same frustrating situation, and I wouldn’t know where he was at, either.
He taught me how to play chess that night. And, I discovered just how much more of a big nerd he was. Strikingly and attractively intelligent, but a nerd nonetheless. Which, by the way, is perfectly fine by me. I’m a nerd in my own ways, too.
Of course he beat me at chess, but we had a good time using our brains together instead of our bodies for a change. And no, it wasn’t strip chess, though my tits were about to bust out the top of the sexy shirt I decided to wear over. And, he didn’t fail to cop a feel of them after our chess game was over.
The sex was great, and I’m thankful to say I remember every little moment of it. I should probably stick with beer from now on when I go over there. Especially because I felt great this morning when I arose from his bed to get ready for work, instead of sickeningly hung over, as I have been when I drink hard liquor with him. And, I looked great in his tshirt, hair tousled and makeup still in good shape in the morning. In this condition, I can see why men love that.
He, however, was a little worse for the weather.
“Whiskey,” he said, “I can’t believe I let my sister talk me into drinking it with her again. It always does me like this.”
He was well aware of my whiskey moratorium. Turns out he has a couple little issues with it as well. He was shivering under the covers after his shower. I piled all the blankets on him and asked him if he wanted some water or food or something. He had to get his butt to class, and was already a little late and taking his time to accommodate me.
“No,” he said, “food makes it worse.”
“Oh.”
“But you know what would really help me?”
“What’s that?”
“You could give me 5 bucks.”
“WHAT?!”
He laughed, recognizing how awful that sounded after the whole conversation we had had the night before about me feeling used.
“No, it’s just I’m out of cigarettes, and I might snap on someone feeling like this over a nic-fit. You don’t have to, I know how that sounds.”
I groaned. “What is in it for me then?’
“I’d be in your debt. I’d owe you $5 and a handle of vodka, which I will give you next time you come over.”
I had to get gas when I left there anyways. So, I decided to be a good friend. But, I let him think I wasn’t going to do it until the last minute, at which point he pretty much praised the ground I walked on. I kissed him goodbye at the gas station, and he hung around while I pumped the gas.
“Why are you still here? Go to class!”
“I was just trying to be a gentleman!”
“Well I appreciate it, but I don’t want you to freeze.”
He kissed me again and hugged me and told me he would text me later this week. I told him it’s customary for me to make corned beef on St. Patty’s day, being that I’m Irish, and that he and his sister and such were welcome to join me. I also have a batch of homemade hooch that should be ready for the occasion, so it promises to be a fun weekend.
He’s sweet. And I kinda wonder what it must be like to be him, and how he sees me in respect to me being a little older, having decent money and helping him out a little bit. Does he see me as stupid, for giving into him or possibly being taken advantage of and paying for something small here or there? Or does he find that admirable and endearing? He told me last night how beautiful he thinks I am. And I fucking loved to hear it. I’m very comfortable around him. I guess I’d have to be, given our history.
Speaking of, one last thing. Post-coitus last night, I went to go pee, and he just strolled in while I was on the pot. Normally, this would never happen unless I was involved with someone for a long time. And, I was totally naked on there. I felt naked.
“What are you doing in here! I’m on the toilet, you can’t look at me while I’m on the toilet!”
He didn’t care. He had to go and I needed to hurry up. He’d have been better off waiting outside. It was harder to pee in his presence. Then, after I was done, he peed and came out and farted in front of me!
“GAAHHH! Gross!” I said, moving to the other side of the room. “First, you walk in on me in the bathroom and now you fart in front of me!? Jeez, you must be comfortable around me!”
He laughed, as all men do.